Embracing Uniqueness
Drama Captain and Prefect, Sophie, delivered a message of self-discovery and acceptance as she underscored the power of authenticity and the importance of appreciating the unique qualities in others.
Each week, our student leaders share their insights with their peers in Assembly.
A few things you should know about me before I start: 1. I love doing drama; 2. I love watching drama; and 3. I love drama. Not that ³ûÖÊÓƵ doesn’t do drama kind of drama, but the type of drama that involves creating, exploring and performing characters and stories – even better if there is music and dancing involved!
The other day I offered up my headphones to a friend, and I said, “you can listen to my music”, to which she responded with “oh, um, never mind.” I was not offended because my music taste is musical theatre, and I am proud of it but I get that it’s not for everyone.
My obsession with all things drama and musicals emerged during the lockdown in 2020, which I kept secret from everyone who knew me. I was embarrassed that I didn’t like the same music as my friends, or the same shows as my family. However, after a while, hiding my passion and the thing that I connected with was tedious and stifling.
Eventually, I introduced my friends and family to the side of me that could recite Hamilton off by heart, to the point where it could be considered concerning. And, while members of my family groaning “Sophie is singing in the shower again”, was a daily occurrence, the freedom I felt blasting out those tunes was worth it. Without knowing it, my confidence and theatricality were growing, and I was celebrating that.
Finding things we are interested and passionate about, and celebrating them, is so important to our development. Embracing them, no matter how unique or niche you may think they are, helps us to have confidence in who we are as unique individuals.
In today’s society, we as women should elevate and encourage each other to find what makes us special. I like the idea that instead of judging others for their uniqueness, for being different, we should stay curious, and take interest in why that makes them tick, even if that is at odds with our tastes or beliefs.
We can build each other up so that everyone’s strengths and passions can make us a more interesting and connected community, within our School and outside of it. We must celebrate and elevate each other so that we can achieve the things we are capable of.
Embracing what I love has allowed me to form meaningful friendships with people who share my interests, like those created during Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and The Crucible, leading to cherished memories and connections with those who have the same passions.
The world is made up of several billion different people, all with something unique to offer. Some interests are shared, others not so much, but all are valuable in our community. Having the confidence to celebrate our own passions is incredibly important, however, it is equally as crucial to elevate the special quirks and stay curious about the people around us. Celebrate your passions and elevate others to do the same.